TISMML Chapter 58.1

Putting aside the issue of beating people, An Yiran’s character has actually always had some problems, both in the original book and now.

He has been dependent on his mother since he was a child, and his mother is his Achilles’ heel.

Without relatives and friends, he forced himself to be sensible and obedient. In addition, he might have some minor problems in his bones, and he was easily impulsive and easily angered. Some people are born to have more deviant thoughts than others and are more likely to take an extreme path.

In addition, An Ning didn’t have much time to accompany him in the few years when he needed company the most, so the problem gradually became bigger and bigger.

Otherwise, such a cruel thing would not have happened in the original book.

It’s just that An Yiran is still young now and has not experienced the tragic changes in the original book, so it has not reached the point of no return.

Nan Yu thought that under the guidance of An Ning and Nan Ji, this extreme and stubborn character would be somewhat improved, but it seemed that…

Nan Ji, you useless father!

“An Ning is very worried about you.”

Nan Yu didn’t argue with him about whether it was wrong or not, but just said this directly.

Is it wrong to hit someone?

Nan Yu knew that the general view was that if you have something to say, ‘you should talk it over nicely’ and ‘hitting people is wrong’. There were even illogical statements like, ‘He just scolded you a few times, how could you hit him?’, which were taken as a reason by many people.

Hitting someone is harmful, but isn’t verbal provocation also harmful?

We can’t treat them differently just because one is obvious and the other is not.

Moreover, Nan Yu felt that she was the least qualified person to say ‘hitting people is wrong’. After all, she had gotten angry and hit someone not long ago, and the victim, Fei Yizheng, had a say in this.

But what should we do after the impulse?

This is the most challenging for a person’s character.

Just like when she first adopted Fei Yunjin. He also fought with others, but the other parents’ behavior overshadowed the fight itself.

At that time, Nan Yu’s statement to Fei Yunjin was to hit him!

Just hit the painful areas that are less likely to get hurt!

Because Fei Yunjin was sensitive and self-deprecating at that time, he needed to release himself instead of suppressing himself.

With Fei Yunjin’s temperament, he would not become a fighting maniac. He knew how to restrain himself. Sure enough, Fei Yunjin never fought with other children again.

Even though he now has the strength to beat several kids under Nan Yu’s training.

An Yiran’s situation was exactly the opposite of Fei Yunjin’s. Nan Yu would never teach him to beat someone, and if the person died, it would be the Nan family’s fault.

If An Yiran’s temper was indulged again, he might become an antisocial element.

He had to learn to restrain himself and be peaceful.

It was okay to be angry and beat people, but he had to be able to deal with the consequences himself, and he had to deal with it beautifully so that everyone would be convinced.

Sure enough, when An Yiran heard the word An Ning, his expression changed slightly, but he still didn’t say anything.

“If you do this, An Ning won’t be happy if she knows.”

Nan Yu knew An Yiran’s weakness. If this child wanted to do something for his mother, he would be willing to do a lot of things.

Sure enough, An Yiran also understood An Ning’s character. The tough attitude that had previously made him hold her breath and refuse to admit his mistakes seemed to have found a way out now.

The things that followed were easy to solve. The Yue family did not want to offend the Nan family for this, but they did not want their family to be looked down upon. As long as both sides gave each other face, it would be enough.

After apologizing to each other, Mrs. Yue wanted to take the child away, but in the next second…

“Mrs. Yue…” Nan Yu called her, still with a smile on her face.

“I have something else to tell you.”

 

 

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